mercoledì 30 dicembre 2015

Bye bye beautiful

Another year went by. It has been a painful, beautiful, full year, filled with laughs and tears and thoughts. The last year of the third decade of my life. A lot of reflections about who I am, who I was and who I want to be. In this year I tried to come to terms with the fact the the dream I have been chasing for 10 years will not come true. It has been hard, but now I feel like I finally let it go. It belongs to the past. This has left me wandering in my own life somehow. You have a target, a goal. You know what are you aiming to. But when you deliberately close that door you find yourself walking along a very long corridor filled with doors and you're not sure which one you should open ( or want to open ). So I decided that with the beginning of this fourth decade I will go back to square one. My first passions: drawing, writing and taking pictures. Not because I decided to become a writer or a painter or a photographer. Or maybe because I decided to become either a writer AND a painter AND a photographer. Or because I want to lit the flame of passion again. I Know 40 will be a great age: my older children have become such great friends, with whom I love to laugh and talk and learn, and my little one keep me young, letting me see the reality with his pure and joyful eyes, and my age set me free from the stress of pleasing other no matter what. I have the luxury to be myself, no competition with my fellow human beings. I feel so blessed. So what I am doing this year is to sign in for an online class (illustration and mixed media art ), writing few short novels and maybe entering some literary contest for beginners, taking more pictures. AND keeping a written nature journal and journaling more. AND reading a lot of books. Oh and eating healthy and living and vegan as much as possible. It seems that 2016 will be full of interesting things. So bye bye 2015, bye bye beautiful, you've been a good teacher, but now I need to move on. With Love, Flavia.

The last pictures for this year, nature and family and Christmas. So much joy. 

Happy New Year !

4 commenti:

  1. I'm wishing you and your dear ones a happy new year! May it be full of joy and creativity. Evelyne

    1. I just noticed I never answered ! My best wishes to you too !

  2. Ogni tanto ritrovo le tue (vostre) tracce nella rete :-)
    come siamo cresciuti tutti quanti!
    Ti ricordi di noi, a Torino?
    Le nostre quattro figlie stanno bene e cercano la loro strada.
    Anch'io sono tornata alla casella di partenza: mi sono iscritta ad un corso sulla didattica della matematica, mi diverto e... chissà cosa riserva il futuro?
    Ti auguro un anno di cambiamenti positivi e fruttuosi.
    PS ora abbiamo anche un cane. Femmina, naturalmente ;-)

    1. Ciao ! Si mi ricordo di voi :) che bello ritrovarsi !Sono contenta che stiate tutti bene, e che tu ti diverta :) Buona domenica !


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